2022 X3 and apple i phone12 pro max

I have a recurring bug where my phone will interrupt the native media system. if I am playing the radio in the car system (XM/FM), i will have a constant loop where the media cuts out every 10-20 seconds or so and flashes over to carplay (where some audio app input such as ESPN, Spotify, Podcasts will interrupt but not play, usually the last one used on the phone) and then after one second the media starts playing again. This will happen nonstop for weeks at a time. I was suggested to exit out at the app i was last using on my phone by BMW service, but this does not solve the problem as even if i exit podcasts for example, it will just go to the "now playing" icon on carplay app even though nothing is playing. I have tried to turn off backaround app refresh on my phone without any improvement.

At times it may not happen for a few days, but then it will start up again and keep on happening for weeks.

Has anyone experienced similar issues?